To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re not going to focus on just one fetish but on something that can enhance all of them: the best lubricants.
There’s a lot of unnecessary stigma around using lube. The truth is, lube is a sexual enhancer, not a reflection of your ability to get aroused. Think of it this way: sex without lube is like washing your hair without conditioner. Sure, it works, but you’re missing out on a lot.
Thankfully, this stigma seems to be fading. A study by lovehoney.co.uk showed that 37% of people in the UK, US, and Australia have tried using a lubricant. It’s most popular among the 25-34 age group, with 49% owning some.
Lube enhances sensation, reduces the risk of STDs and tearing, increases comfort, and helps you go longer. Dryness can be a valid reason to use lube, as dry sex can be painful and cause vaginal tears. Common causes of dryness include stress, medications, over-washing, dehydration, under-stimulation, and menopause.
With all that in mind, here are the best lubes to try:
1. Standard Water-Based Lube
– Bondara Luxury Lubricant (£8.99): Lightweight and non-sticky, this odourless and flavourless lube is a great starting point.
2. Sensitive Lubes
– ID Moments (£10.99): Hypoallergenic and free of glycerine and parabens, this gentle lube is perfect for those with sensitive skin.
3. Moisturising Lube
– Lelo Personal Moisturiser (£17.90): Discreet and silky, it’s safe to use internally.
4. Thick Lube
– Smilemakers Generous Gel (£18.78): Perfect for those who prefer a richer texture.
5. Flavoured Lube
– JO Gelato Hazelnut Espresso (£5.85): Delicious and zero-calorie, this lube is available in various flavours.
6. Vegan Lube
– YES WB (£13) & Sliquid Organics (£18.33): Both are lightweight, scent-free, and ethically made.
7. Oil-Based Lube
– Cosmopolitan Kissable Strawberry Massage Oil (£9.99):
