To celebrate International Fetish Day, let’s talk about something that can boost the enjoyment of every fetish – the best lubes for the job.
There’s a silly stigma around using lube. Some think needing lube means you’re bad at sex. I’ve heard many times, ‘I don’t need lube; I’m good at sex,’ and it’s a misconception that needs to go. Lube is a sexual enhancer and has nothing to do with your ability to get aroused. It makes the experience more enjoyable, like washing your hair with conditioner instead of without.
Thankfully, the stigma is fading. A study by Lovehoney revealed that 37% of people in the UK, US, and Australia have used lube: 38% in the UK, 43% in the US, and 31% in Australia. Lube is most popular among 25-34-year-olds, with 49% using it, while only 28% of 55-64-year-olds and 22% of those over 65 use it.
Lube can enhance sensations, reduce the risk of STDs and tearing, increase comfort, and help you go longer in bed. It’s especially useful for those dealing with dryness, which can result from stress, medications, over-washing, dehydration, under-stimulation, or menopause. Here are some excellent lubes you might want to try:
1. Water-based lube: Bondara Luxury Lubricant (£8.99) – It’s lightweight, odorless, and lasts long.
2. Sensitive lubes: ID Moments (£10.99) – Hypoallergenic and free of glycerin and parabens.
3. Moisturizing lube: Lelo Personal Moisturiser (£17.90) – Silky and discreet.
4. Thick lube: Smilemakers Generous Gel (£18.78) – Luxurious texture, perfect for more intense lubrication needs.
5. Edible lube: JO Gelato Hazelnut Espresso (£5.85) – Tasty and zero-calorie. Also available in various flavors.
6. Vegan lube: YES WB (£13) and Sliquid Organics (£18.33) – Lightweight, gentle, and flavor-free.
7. Flavored lube: ID Frutopia – Mango Passion (£3.20) – Sweet and subtle.
8. Warming lube: Intimate Earth – Melt (£14.99) – Gradual warming effect, and vegan.
9. Cooling lube: System Jo H2O- Cooling (£11.90) – Light menthol effect and long-lasting.
10. Post-menopausal lube: OVIO Replenish (£12.99) – Long-lasting vaginal moisturizer.
11. Oil-based lube: Cosmopolitan Kissable Strawberry Massage Oil (£9.99) – Gentle on the skin and safe to ingest.
12. Silicone-based lube: Uberlube (£18) – Long-lasting, multipurpose, and non-oily.
Remember, lube is not just for dryness – it enhances the sexual experience. To introduce your partner to using lube, talk about it first, let them try a small bottle, or just bring it out during the moment to show how great it feels.
