To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re not sticking to just one fetish; instead, we’re looking at something that enhances all of them – the best lubes.
There’s a significant misconception about lubricants. Many people think using lube means you’re not good at sex, but that’s simply not true. Lube enhances sexual experiences, regardless of your arousal levels. Skipping lube is like washing your hair without conditioner – it works, but you’re missing out on extra goodness.
Luckily, more people are starting to embrace lube. A study by lovehoney.co.uk found that 37% of people in the UK, US, and Australia have tried it, with the highest usage in the 25-34 age group.
Lube has many benefits:
– It enhances sensation with various options like warming, cooling, or tingling
– It reduces the risk of STDs and tears during sex
– It makes sex more comfortable, avoiding chafing and discomfort
– It helps you go longer by supplementing your body’s natural lubrication
Dryness is a common reason people turn to lube. It’s essential if you’re stressed, taking medications, over-washing, dehydrated, under-stimulated, or going through menopause.
Let’s dive into some of the best lubes to try in 2020:
1. Water-based Lube:
– Pick: Bondara Luxury Lubricant – £8.99
– Odorless and flavorless, this lightweight lube offers a smooth glide.
2. Sensitive Lube:
– Pick: ID Moments – £10.99
– Hypoallergenic and gentle, free from glycerine and parabens.
3. Moisturising Lube:
– Pick: Lelo Personal Moisturiser – £17.90
– Silky and discreet, though not meant for consumption.
4. Thick Lube:
– Pick: Smilemakers Generous Gel – £18.78
– Luxurious, pillow-like texture, ideal for those needing longer-lasting lubrication.
5. Edible Lube:
– Pick: JO Gelato Hazelnut Espresso – £5.85
– Delicious flavors like Hazelnut Espresso, perfect for enhancing oral pleasure.
6. Vegan Lube:
– Picks: YES WB – £13 & Sliquid Organics – £18.33
– Lightweight and traditional textures, without scents or flavors.
7. Flavored Lube:
– Pick: ID Frutopia Mango Passion – £3.20
– Sweet and subtle flavors, great for a delightful experience.
8. Warming Lube:
– Pick: Intimate Earth Melt (Warming Glide) – £14.99
– Gradual warming effect, vegan friendly.
9. Cooling Lube:
– Pick: System Jo H2O Cooling – £11.90
– Long-lasting, lightweight menthol lubricant.
10. Post-Menopausal Lube:
– Pick: OVIO Replenish – £12.99
– Long-lasting vaginal moisturiser in convenient pessaries.
11. Oil-Based Lube:
– Pick: Cosmopolitan Kissable Strawberry Massage Oil – £9.99
– Safe for internal use, with a pleasant scent.
12. Silicone-Based Lube:
– Pick: Uberlube – £18
– Long-lasting, sleek, and multifunctional, also used by athletes and salons.
Encouraging your partner to try lube may require some persuasion. Discuss its benefits openly, let them try it out themselves, or surprise them with it during an intimate moment.
Incorporating lube can dramatically improve your sexual experiences, making them more enjoyable and comfortable. So, don’t shy away from it – give it a try and see the difference it makes.
