To celebrate International Fetish Day, we’re not just focusing on one fetish but something that can make them all more enjoyable – the best lubricants. There’s an unnecessary stigma around using lube, but it’s time to clear that up. Lube is a sexual enhancer, not a reflection of your ability to get aroused. It’s similar to how conditioner works for your hair – it just makes everything better.
Thankfully, the stigma around lube might be fading. A study by lovehoney.co.uk shows that 37% of people in the UK, US, and Australia have tried using lube. It’s especially popular among 25-34-year-olds, with 49% owning lube, while only 22% of those over 65 have used it.
Lube isn’t just for adding sensation like warming, cooling, or tingling; it can reduce the risk of STDs, tearing, and discomfort during sex, and it helps you go longer. Our natural lubrication depends on how hydrated we are, so lube can really ease the pressure.
Dryness is a common reason to use lube, and it can be caused by stress, medications, over-washing, dehydration, under-stimulation, and menopause. About half of post-menopausal women experience dryness and discomfort, so using lube can be a game-changer.
Here are some of the best lubes to try in 2020 (and perhaps ever):
1. Water-based lubes
– Bondara Luxury Lubricant (£8.99): Great for beginners, it’s odorless, flavorless, and long-lasting.
2. Sensitive lubes
– ID Moments (£10.99): Hypoallergenic and free of glycerine and parabens, it’s gentle on the skin.
3. Moisturizing lubes
– Lelo Personal Moisturiser (£17.90): Soft, silky, and discreet.
4. Thick lubes
– Smilemakers Generous Gel (£18.78): Luxurious and long-lasting, perfect for tightness or anal use.
– Probe Natural Lubricant Classic Thick Rich (£14): Thick yet slick, it’s ideal for those who don’t mind a sticky texture.
5. Flavored lubes
– JO Gelato Hazelnut Espresso (£5.85): Delicious
